Advent: Real joy in a counterfeit world

Freshwater Staff   -  

The world would have us believe that without happiness, joy is impossible. In our final “Real Advent” message, we were reminded that joy is always available, no matter our circumstances.

Jamey Codding explored the Apostle Paul’s teachings in Philippians 4, where Paul speaks of a secret to being content in all circumstances, a secret that is rooted in Christ. As the most common counterfeit to our joy, we often chase after happiness by trying to manipulate our uncomfortable circumstances, but joy is a deeper, more enduring state that is available to us regardless of what life throws our way.

We reflected on the story of Jesus’ birth in Luke 2, a moment of great joy announced to shepherds who had waited through centuries of silence for the Messiah. When the shepherds heard “the good news that will cause great joy for all the people,” they acted upon the secret they’d been told and went to Bethlehem. Their search reminds us that joy is not just an emotion but a state of being that comes from knowing and abiding in Christ. We often chase happiness through changing our circumstances to align with our expectations, but this pursuit can leave us feeling empty and unfulfilled. Real joy – a complete and eternal joy – is found as we do what the shepherds did on the first Christmas and draw near to Jesus, the source of joy.

In our lives, we face trials and hardships that can obscure our joy. However, by surrendering our need to control and trusting in God’s presence, we can experience joy even in the darkest moments. This joy is not dependent on our circumstances but on our proximity to Christ. As we abide in Him, we are invited to lay down our burdens and embrace the joy that He offers. This is the true gift of Christmas, a joy that is here now and will be with us for eternity.

Reflection Questions
  1. Consider the ways you currently pursue happiness. Are there any pursuits that leave you feeling empty? How can you shift your focus towards finding joy in Christ instead?
  2. In what areas of your life do you struggle to surrender control? How can trusting in God’s presence help you find joy even in difficult circumstances?
  3. How can you make a conscious effort to abide in Christ this week? Identify one specific action you can take to draw nearer to Him and experience His joy.
  4. Think about a time when you experienced joy despite challenging circumstances. What was different about that situation, and how can you apply that understanding to future hardships?
  5. How can the story of Jesus’ birth inspire you to share the joy of Christ with others during this Christmas season? What practical steps can you take to spread this joy?
Watch the Message
Worship Songs from December 22
  • “O Holy Night”
  • “Worthy of it All”
  • “King of Kings”
  • “All Hail King Jesus”
  • “It Is Well (Through It All)” (after the message)
  • “Joy To The World (Unspeakable Joy)” (after the message)