Spiritual Disciplines: Solitude and Silence

Freshwater Staff   -  

In a world filled with constant noise and distractions, finding moments of solitude and silence can feel like an impossible task. Yet, as Jesus demonstrated in His own life, the practice of solitude is a foundational practice for spiritual growth and renewal.

Pastor Jake continued our series on The Spiritual Disciples by highlighting the importance of escaping the noise of our world. There are many different types of noises that surround us, including audible noise, informational noise, and the noise of our inner dialogue. Jake challenged us to recognize how these noises can distract us from being truly present and can negatively impact our souls.

Solitude acts as a counter-practice to the noise and busyness of our lives. It allows us to slow down, detach from distractions, and connect with God on a deeper level. As Jake pointed out, Jesus regularly withdrew from the crowds to solitary places for prayer and reflection (Mark 1:35, John 6:15, Luke 5:16).

Solitude is not just about escaping the noise; it’s also about embracing the silence and allowing our souls to be transformed. As we spend time alone with God, we can experience His presence, receive His guidance, and be filled with His love. And rather than looking at solitude in our needy world as a selfish act, remember that by taking time for ourselves, we are actually better equipped to serve others and live a more fulfilling life.

Jake shared five steps to help us practice solitude and silence:

1. Find a quiet and still place.
2. Be still.
3. Let your internal dialogue slow down.
4. Listen and wait.
5. Pray, but not with many words.

By creating space for quiet reflection and connection with God, we can experience spiritual renewal, overcome the negative influences of our world, and gain a deeper understanding of our true identity.

Reflection Questions
  1. What has been your experience with solitude and silence to this point? If it is something you have been able to prioritize, what has God taught you in those moments of stillness and reflection? If you have not prioritized it, what are the obstacles that keep you from slowing and stilling?
  2. How often do you find yourself overwhelmed by noise and distractions in your daily life? What impact does this have on your spiritual well-being?
  3. What are some specific ways you can create more space for solitude and silence in your life?
  4. How have you typically responded if negative emotions and thoughts arise during times of solitude?
  5. How can you encourage others to prioritize solitude and silence in their own spiritual journeys?
Watch the Message
Worship Songs from September 8
  • “Man of Sorrows”
  • “What a Beautiful Name”
  • “Lead Me to the Cross”
  • “The Lord Our God”
  • “Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus” (after our time of silence)