We Cancel the Sins of Others
In the first week of our “Cancel Culture” series, we looked at how God canceled the record of our debt (Colossians 2:13-14). In week 2, Jamey Codding explored how the forgiveness we’ve received should then influence our ability to offer the same countercultural forgiveness to others.
As Jesus taught in Luke 6:36, we are to “be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.” To illustrate His point, Jesus told a story in Matthew 18:21-35 about an unmerciful servant whose king showed him compassion by forgiving his unpayable debt. However, when presented with the opportunity to extend mercy to a fellow servant, the man refuses. This stark contrast highlights the tragedy of a heart that remains unchanged by grace.
By first showing us mercy, God says, “Do as I say AND do as I do” when others sin against us. But when we withhold forgiveness from others, we are disobeying God, and like any sin, unforgiveness will disrupt our relationship with the Father.
Have we truly embraced the mercy we’ve received from God? Are we willing to extend that same mercy by canceling the sins of others, no matter how they may have wronged us? Are we willing to pray for our enemies, as Jesus teaches? By offering radical forgiveness to others, we not only obey God but also experience the freedom and peace that come from a heart released from bitterness and resentment.
Reflection Questions
- How does the reality of God’s radical forgiveness impact your understanding of your own worth and identity? Does it help you to see yourself as someone who is deeply loved and forgiven?
- How does the world’s culture of “canceling” people contrast with the command to forgive? What are the dangers of participating in a culture that is quick to judge and condemn?
- Can you identify any areas in your life where you may be holding onto bitterness or unforgiveness? How might these unresolved feelings be affecting your relationships with God and others, as well as your overall well-being?
- How can you use social media and other digital platforms to promote forgiveness and understanding, rather than division and hatred? What kind of content can you share that encourages others to extend grace to one another?
- What other ways can you extend mercy to others, even those who may have wronged you? How can you embody the kindness and compassion of Christ in your interactions with others?
Watch the Message
Worship Songs from November 3
- “The Father’s House”
- “How Deep the Father’s Love for Us”
- “Make Room”
- “Worthy of It All”
- “Homecoming” (after the message)